Monday, June 8, 2009

The Friend Zone

I haven't blogged in forever so I am going to post one now. Since I don't know what to blog about I am going to write about an article that I read over a week ago. It asked how people ended up in the "Friend Zone" and if it was possible to get out of it.

I personally feel as if I always fall into this zone, which sucks =/. I for some reason always come off to girls as the friend type rather than the dating type. I don't know if it is something that I do, but I seem to always run into the same situation. I could be interested in a girl and then after we hang out a few times she says that I am a great friend. As soon as I hear that I know that I will be nothing more than a friend.

I would like to think though that it is possible to get out of the "Friend Zone" even though I know it is unlikely. I believe this could happen because I would like to date someone that I feel that I know and could get along with. A friend is someone you can have fun with and fell comfortable with. I just feel that a friend bypasses the whole getting to know someone stage, so dating a friend could sometimes be easier.

I haven't run into this recently, but for some reason I would always find myself in this situation in high school. So, is one able to become more than a friend once they are considered to be in the "Friend Zone?"

1 comment:

  1. hmm..
    i think when the right woman comes, you won't find yourself in that friend zone anymore. :) i know that's sort of a grimace-inducing answer but one cannot argue with it. :D

    L

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